Saturday, June 6, 2009

Social experiment I conducted recently

I went to a place regularly that I would like to leave undisclosed. The place had lots and lots of women. I wanted to see how many times I would be approached if I just sat and did totally nothing. I guess you can say I wanted to try "fishing" (only without crossing my legs). The experience I've had prior to this was that it's usually [the least attractive women intersected with, the women who like me the most] that will come to me first. This is of course just rule of thumb. Besides the least attractive women who like me the most, I will also get the wild girls who practically want me on the back of their motorcylcle. In fact, I had such a girl ask me out. She came to pick ME up (no not on a motorcycle this time). She honked her horn when she arrived. She drove wild, cussed and flipped off people etc. She brought me to a very nice restraurant! She showed me a great time and even paid for the meal! After we ate, she actually expect me to do something!!!! Anyway, back to the experiment. I literally sat at this place and did very little or nothing. I kept myself company on my SideKick which I also used for taking careful observation notes. In 2 years, I had about 5 women come to me. 2 or 3 of them were actually fairly pretty. Usually they just asked me a bunch of questions and then I never heard from them again. It was almost like they were just being nosey. The vast majority of the women there never or rarely spoke to me. In my experiment I always sat next to an empty chair (if I could) so it would be easy for them to approach me in a sly lady like fashion. It just never happened. I've concluded that in our culture, judging purely within the confines of this one isolated experiment, that if you're a man you have to make yourself BE known before women will know your qualities. This same place is completely different now. The gumps (please read my definition of gump on other note) were either kicked out or left. Now I know all kinds of women there. So perhaps it's the gumps who make it difficult for the women to meet guys who don't climb all over them. I have no idea. Maybe some of the lady readers can explain this phenomena to me. I'd like to hear some intelligent input!

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