My thoughts on shallowness

I want a girl that understands the real meaning of being shallow. Just because you're not shallow doesn't mean that you won't take looks into consideration. If looks had no purpose, men and women wouldn't instinctively look for them. What shallow means is that the person puts looks way above everthing else. A shallow girl will go for someone like Scott Peterson. Nevermind that he's a murderer, if she thinks he looks good, she goes for him anyway. Shallow isn't always about looks. It can be about money too. A shallow woman might judge a guy by his status (how much he makes, what kind of car he drives, etc). A single man works to take care of himself. This means he CAN work at a lesser paying job. This doesn't mean he's not capable of anything better. A woman who isn't shallow will look for the man's integrity and substance. A pretty boy that has a huge inheritance (without the before mentioned traits) is nothing if the money ever goes away. A man with integrity and substance is not too proud to mow lawns in order to feed his family. Back in the old days, couples started off with nothing and worked together to build a family structure. That's where the saying "Behind every successful man is a good woman" came from. A shallow woman will just cherry pick a man so she can live her dream life without putting forth effort of her own. If I walk up to a shallow woman for a dance, she might turn me down because she doesn't like the song. A deep woman will take more importance in the human that asked, than the song. I'm not suggesting a woman is obligated to say yes but I'm just trying to describe distinction. If I asked a shallow woman to the movies, she will say, "I don't know, it depends on what's playing?", but a deep woman will say, "Yes, thanks for the kind offer, by the way, what's playing?".