Bubble Gum Girls

In this note I would like to discuss yet another typical stereotype, the Bubble Gum Girl. I'm sure the Bubble Gum Girl has a male counter part, but since I don't date men it's up to the famale readers to describe a man like this in the comments, assuming men like that exist.

Basically a Bubble Gum Girl is a girl who treats a relationship like a stick of gum. She finds the gum really tastey when she first starts chewing, but spits it out as soon as the flavor goes away.

A girl like this will probably never find true happiness. Chasing thrill by constantly looking for the new and exciting, can only be damaging in the long run. A long meaningful and loving relationship is a benefit to her, but jumping from man to man will get her noplace. She will be like a bear clawing in its tracks.

This girl rarely cares about anyone but herself. I've seen girls act totally gaw gaw over me. I would swear by their actions that they would probably love me forever. They call me non stop and want to see me all the time. To my surprise, after a month or two, she starts drifting away. Nevermind that maybe this guy has developed feelings for her, she's ready to go. I guess it's true, when a bulb burns twice as bright, it lasts half as long (take that any way you want).

I've since learned that the best girl is a girl who is not shallow. She's the girl who doesn't have the whole gaw gaw things going on when she first meets you. She sort of becomes more and more attached to you as time progresses. In other words, she has real reasons to love you, not just school girl infatuation and self love. This is one way a guy can tell if he's with a Bubble Gum Girl or not. A deep girl will take the time to see who you are and she will savor that long term relationship, understanding it's value. She knows that constantly seeking short term thrills is like a dog chasing its tail, it gets her noplace. I'm sure to some degree, learning to value a relationship is a form of maturity. Learning that the grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence, so why not water her own yard?